in your shoes ??

今日上網讀下文，見到一句有趣用詞 － if i m in your shoes， ...... 。於是查下字典，有以下意思：

以對方的角度來考慮，體會對方的難處和苦衷。

Example 1
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A: Why are you so upset?
B: I flunked math. If you were in my shoes, you’d be upset, too.
 
A：你為何咁 upset？
B：我的數學不及格。如果你係我，你亦會一樣 upset。

Example 2
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If I were in your shoes, I would never sell out the car .
如果我係你，我就唔會賣左架車。

"be in someone 's shoes" 代表 "如果 你／我 在  我／你 立場的話“。試著下人地的鞋，就知道人地有幾痛。

Ref. http://www.kekenet.com/study/3505.shtml